Praying for a friend in the hospital

praying for a friend in the hospital

You’ve just found out a family member or friend is in the hospital. You want to show you’re thinking about them. What would help the most? Flowers, a visit? Or maybe something to help them pass the time?

We asked CaringBridge families – the true experts – how to support a friend in the hospital. Here’s what they said:

6 Best Ways to Make a Friend’s Hospital Stay Better

1. Ask Before Visiting

While many people appreciate visits, it’s not always possible due to hospital rules or how the patient is feeling. Call ahead to find out if your friend can have visitors and feels well enough to see you.

  • “I usually make it a practice to not visit someone in hospital, as I do not want visitors (other than immediate family) when I am there.” – Jan
  • “In the local hospital had lots of visits, but after she was moved (about an hour away) she didn’t get as many visits – the visits were great for her (wish she had more), but even better for us because we got to take a little break. We did end up doing some face-time and Skype with a few people for her and that was great as well.” – Joann

2. Help Out Without Being Asked

When it comes to taking care of things back at the house, don’t wait for your friend to ask for help – they have so much on their mind. Just take care of the yard work and whatever needs doing.

  • “Please don’t say this, ‘If you need something please let me know!’ Instead, bring food to the house, mow their yard, purchase a gas card, send cards, and visit when you can. DO something helpful.” – Pat
  • “They did things for our family without asking. They made sure our pets and yard were cared for, they made us meals, and they were there.” – Kayla

3. Give a Goodie Bag & Small Gifts

The most common advice: Give small gifts or a goodie bag to keep someone with a lot of time on her hands entertained.

  • “Give them a goodie bag with things to occupy them…magazines, puzzles, decks of cards, writing and drawing pads, stamps, an iPad, books, lots of books” – Elaine
  • “An occasional flower (no need for a bouquet), a magazine, a cute picture. Small gestures of love.” – Darcy
  • “Lots of movies and books to pass the time. Ask friends to bring healthy snacks and meals and coffee cards!” – Marlana

4. Bring Reminders of Home

Little pieces of home are a way to personalize a hospital room. Their regular pillow, favorite coffee mug, photos, or the local paper can help the new environment and schedule feel normal.

  • “Bring your own pillow and pillow case and a comfy blanket.“ – Marlana
  • “The thing that helped me the most wasn’t a person. It was a red decorative pillow. It smelled of home and helped keep the homesickness at bay.” – Jodye

5. Feed Them

A home-cooked meal in the hospital can be rare, so it’s extra-appreciated. For family of the patient, gift cards to local restaurants give them a change from the hospital cafeteria.

  • “To show support: I think bringing the parents of children in the hospital a nice home cooked meal. There’s only so much fast food one wants to eat plus it gets expensive.” – Nikki
  • “Bring food to the house, that is the greatest gift.” – Janice
  • “All our hospital stays included a plastic box that could fit under the bed filled with favourite snacks and drinks, bottled water, your own mug for the tea.” – Lena

6. Offer Notes and Well Wishes

Whether it’s a card in the mail or a message on a CaringBridge website, encouraging words can go a long way to boosting someone’s spirits.

  • “Just staying in touch was so needed……knowing we weren’t forgotten. Never underestimate how important a note or a text message is. They are vital.” – Toni
  • “As an adult cards were the most appreciated.” – Darcy
  • “First thing would be to sign up for CaringBridge and let everyone know how to get to your page. I was hospitalized in a city far away from my friends and family so in person visits were rare. The joy of the comforting and encouraging words were a tremendous help. It creates a community of people who are caring about you and that is an awesome feeling.” – Jeff

Read all the responses on our Facebook page.

What Would You Add?

How do you show your support when someone you care about is in the hospital? If you’ve had a long hospital stay, what did your friends do that meant the most? Share your tips for how to support a friend in the hospital below.

Are you caring for someone during a hospital stay? If so, consider starting a CaringBridge website for them, where you can share health updates and receive encouragement and support from your community.

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Updated on November 26, 2018

Oyewole Folarin loves writing greeting-card messages and helping others find the words they need for life’s special moments.

If you’re not quite sure how to wish someone a speedy recovery, I have you covered. Read on for get-well-soon messages and inspiration! How to Wish Your Friends and Loved Ones a Healthy, Speedy Recovery

Figuring out what to write in a get-well-soon card to a best friend who is sick or recovering from an illness can take lots of time and thought. Of course, you feel bad upon hearing the news of the person’s ill health, but telling them that will only do so much. Finding encouraging and comforting words that will renew their hope of healing is much more helpful, but that can be difficult.

If you don’t know what to write in a card to wish him or her well, then use one (or more) of the suggestions from my list that best suits your feelings for someone who is sick or recovering from an illness. You’ll find plenty of ideas and inspiration from the samples below to help you write your own unique get-well-soon wishes.

Not sure what to say in your get-well card? Including a quote is always a nice touch. Get Well Soon, Health, and Recovery Quotes

If your card doesn’t already have a message inside, consider including a quote. This is a nice way to round out your message in a meaningful way. Below, you will find a selection of quotes that range from funny to profound to choose from.

  • “The is one consolation in being sick; and that is the possibility that you may recover to a better state than you were ever in before.” —Henry David Thoreau
  • “If knowing that someone really cares, helps healing along its way then I hope you now feel better and keep improving, day by day.” —John Bratton
  • “You have a cough? Go home tonight, eat a whole box of Ex-Lax – tomorrow you’ll be afraid to cough.” —Pearl Williams
  • “I reckon being ill as one of the great pleasures of life, provided one is not too ill and is not obliged to work till one is better.” —Samuel Butler
  • “Thinking of you and praying for you for a fresh touch from the Lord, so you will get well and be strengthened again to be whole and completely restored.” —M.S. Lowndes
  • “A bad cold wouldn’t be so annoying if it weren’t for the advice of our friends.” —Kin Hubbard
  • “If I had my way, I’d make health catching instead of disease.” —Robert Ingersoll
  • “An apple a day keep the doctor away.” —Spanish Proverb
  • “The treatment is really a cooperative of a trinity—the patient, the doctor and the inner doctor.” —Ralph Bircher
  • “Be careful when reading health books; you may die of a misprint.” —Mark Twain
  • “I wonder why you can always read a doctor’s bill and you can never read his prescription.” —Finley Peter Dunne

Sending your sick friend or loved one a get-well-soon card is a sure way to bring a smile to their face, no matter how poorly they’re feeling. Get Well Soon Messages for a Sick Friend or Loved One

  • I was heartbroken when I heard you were ill. I wish you a speedy and full recovery from your illness. Get well soon!
  • I’m missing you so much. Please don’t forget to take your medications as prescribed for you so that I can see you again soon. I wish you a speedy recovery.
  • Take this token from me, a basket full of love and happiness from someone who cares very much about you. I wish you fast healing from your illness and sound health for all the years to come. Please get well soon!
  • Rest well and remember to take your prescribed medications so you can get back on your feet soon. I wish you a speedy recovery, my friend.
  • We are all worried about you. Your ill health has been a big blow to your family, friends, and colleagues and loved ones. We are missing you. Please, get well soon!
  • Being ill can feel so unfair, but I hope you know how many people are out there thinking of you and sending healing thoughts your way. I know I am! Feel better soon, my friend.
  • I was so sorry to hear you’re unwell, my friend. I hope you’ve been getting plenty of rest and relaxation, and that you’ll be back to 100% soon. Until then, know that I’m thinking of you and sending positive, healing thoughts your way!

Your get-well card doesn’t need to be too long—no matter what, your friend will be happy to hear from you and know you’re thinking of them.

  • Please accept this special gift from me and know that you are not alone on your sickbed. I wish you a fast and miraculous recovery.
  • May you bounce back to your usual self soon! I wish you a speedy and full recovery.
  • Sending you well wishes today, and hoping to see you back on your feet soon.
  • I wish you comfort, good health, happiness, and a fast recovery. May you enjoy sound health for many years to come!
  • Sending well wishes to you and hoping to see you back on your feet soon. I’m missing you.
  • Wishing you all the best with your recovery. And may you enjoy many more years with good health.
  • Sending you well wishes and hoping they will put a smile back on your lovely face. Get well soon!
  • I was so sorry to hear you were ill. If there is anything I can do to help, do let me know. Here’s wishing you a blissful, speedy recovery, happiness, and good health to enjoy for the rest of your life.
  • I hope to see you bounce back to your usual life soon. You’re such a wonderful friend, and I hate seeing you under the weather. Get better soon!
  • Having fun and enjoying happiness is not the same without you. Wishing you a speedy and full recovery from your illness.

Messages for Someone in the Hospital Recovering From Surgery

  • Your continued stay in the hospital has made everyone heartsick at home. I wish you a quick recovery so we can have fun together again.
  • Having you by my side every day makes me happy, so the longer you stay in the hospital, the more unhappy I become. Here’s wishing you a speedy and full recovery, my friend!
  • I’m thinking about you during this difficult time and sending healing thoughts your way. I hope the medications the doctors are giving you are providing some relief from the pain. And I’m praying for your miraculous healing, speedy recovery, and continuing sound health. Get better soon, my wonderful friend!
  • Your stay in the hospital is tearing me apart. You are always remembered in my prayers. Please, get well soon!
  • Sweetheart, I can’t stay at home alone. If the doctor would allow me, I would stand by your sickbed until you get better. I wish you a miraculous and fast recovery.
  • We are happy to hear that you are responding well to your treatment. May you have many more years of good health! Sending our warmest wishes for your speedy recovery. We love you.

It’s hard to see your sweetheart feeling under the weather, but writing them a kind note will make both of you feel better. Get Well Soon Messages for Your Spouse or Significant Other

  • Life at home has been less happy since you were confined to your sickbed. Sweetheart, please get well soon!
  • It breaks my heart to see you feeling so poorly, my love. Please get well soon so that I can see that smiling face of yours once again!
  • I hope you will be feeling better soon, darling. Until then, let your humble servant know if you require soup or snuggles. It’s been said that both have healing properties!
  • I was so bummed to hear you were feeling sick, babe. Let me know if there’s anything I can do to make you feel better. I’ll do whatever it takes to bring a smile to your face!
  • I’m so sorry you’re feeling sick, darling. Know that I’m here to take care of whatever you need. I love you!
  • No matter how brightly the sun is shining, I just can’t feel happy when you’re sick. So rest up and get better already so we can have fun together again! Hoping you feel like yourself again soon, babe.

Sending your thoughts and prayers to a sick friend or loved one can do wonders to help them recover. Get Well Wishes and Prayers for a Friend or Loved One

  • Seeing you on your sickbed makes me sad. I pray God will grant you good health today and the years to come. I wish you a full recovery from your illness.
  • Doctors try their best, but God heals. I pray for you every day to get well soon.
  • My prayer is that God will heal you miraculously from your illness so that we can share good times once more. Wishing you a speedy recovery, my dear friend.
  • I’m eager to see you well again. Every day I pray to God to grant you sound health so you can get back on your feet soon.
  • Each day, I ask God to grant you strength and I pray you will soon get over this sickness. Just keep in mind that you are not alone, but surrounded by people who care about you. I will keep praying for your quick and full recovery. Get well soon!
  • I hope to see you feeling hale and hearty again soon, and I wish you sound health today and years to come. Feel better, my friend.
  • Your ill health has taken away our fun and happiness. We wish you were here with us and not on that sickbed that has kept you away from your friends and colleagues. We wish you a speedy and full recovery from your illness.
  • This card is from your friends, who all wish you a full and speedy recovery. We miss having you around! Get well soon, .
  • My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. You’re not alone, and I hope to see you return to your healthy life soon. May God heal you soon and make you feel better to enjoy your life!
  • These flowers represent my love for you. I hope they will show you just how much I care about you! I will continue to pray for your speedy recovery. Get well soon!

© 2014 Oyewole Folarin

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Page 1 – Get Well Quotes

Page 2 – Quotations and Wishes for Getting Well

Page 3 – Get Well Soon Messages

Get well soon messages when someone is sick, injured, or recovering from a surgery, your words of care and love can go a long way in making them feel better and relaxed. It doesn’t matter whether the person is a friend, colleague or a relative. What matters is how your caring words make them feel!

Doctor’s medicine is important, but sometimes, it’s more important for patients to feel good about themselves! The healing power is often said to be a matter of how you feel. So when you send a get-well-soon card to a close friend or loved one, make sure the messages inspire and encourage them to feel better!

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Get Well Soon Messages – Magical Words for Speedy Recovery

Funny Get Well Wishes

Fun and laughter can revive and rejuvenate anyone. It is not for nothing that they say that laughter is one of the best medicine. Anything funny that brightens up the patient can work wonders! Send a card with an appropriate funny message from these:

  • Falling ill is a great way to get paid off. I wish you enjoy your beauty sleep while funding our poor doctors! Wish you a quick recovery!
  • Dear friend, we are sad that you have been away for a while. We have been missing your smile. We miss you at work! Get well soon!
  • If you had not enjoyed all that ice cream without me, the fever would not have been this severe. Next time call me to share all the ice cream! Get well soon!
  • What happened to you? You need to get well soon. We have to continue our gossiping, so sleep well and get well soon.
  • Now that you have fallen sick, you must know that you are the most likable person around. Even the bacteria and viruses have fallen for your charms. Wish you make a speedy recovery!

Funny Get Well Messages

  • Now that you are under house arrest, you will get all the lawful punishments you deserve! It’s time to get all the bed rest and fluids that you deserve so much! Wishing you to get well soon!
  • I wish you to make a speedy recovery. You know I need to borrow some money! Don’t you know that you are the only bank I take loans from! So get well dear!
  • Another chance to sleep in for you? Some folks will go to great lengths to get some extra shut-eye. All kidding aside, get well soon!
  • If you were not this beautiful, the virus would not have hit on you. I am luckier than you because I am not as charming as you. Get well soon!
  • I used to think that you were superhuman. But now I think that you too are human like us! Get well soon!
  • A healthier you means less work for me. What are you waiting for? Get well soon!

Get Well Soon Funny

  • Folks who think laughter is the best medicine apparently have never had morphine. Be well.
  • Feel better in a hurry so we can get back to making fun of you with no guilt.
  • I’ve waved my magic wand to make it all better…what’s taking so long?
  • Sorry you had to eat hospital food.
  • Life is boring without you. Hurry up already!
  • I can only be nice for so long – get better soon.

praying for a friend in the hospitalWishes for Friend

  • God’s speed in your recovery to full health!
  • Prayers coming your way for a speedy recovery.
  • Hope your 100% soon!
  • Sending recovery good thoughts your way.
  • Hope your feeling well soon.
  • Sending good, healthy vibes your way for a speedy recovery.
  • Being sick is no fun — come join the fun people and get well soon.
  • Feeling better sometimes just takes a little time. You’ve taken enough. Get well right away.
  • I’m Florence Nightingale and you’re my patient. We will get through this together.

Recovery Notes

  • I worry that when you get all our warm regards your fever will increase further. Just kidding! Get well and get back soon!
  • You don’t look great when you are ill. So get well in a hurry so that you look attractive again! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
  • I think God is always testing your tolerance because you have lots of patience. Be on good terms with god and get well soon!
  • I am looking for a magician to fix that broken leg of yours. You don’t have to spend so many weeks in recovery! Just kidding! Wish you a speedy recovery!
  • I remember telling you that I will stand by you forever! But that didn’t mean that you had to break your hands for me to prove my words! Get well soon!
  • Make sure that you don’t play with the medicines and follow what the doctors tell you! Wish you a complete and speedy recovery!
  • If you don’t get better fast I will inject you with lots of pain killers. I guess you know that I am not great when it comes to taking injections! Get well and skip my injections!
  • Hope day by day goes quickly and you’re up on your feet soon.
  • Your illness is another confirmation for my doubts that you are such a great attention seeker! Wish you a quick recovery so that you can seek all the attention when you are healthy!
  • I know that there is no fun in being in the hospital. I wish that you are kicked out of there quickly! Get well soon!

Inspiring Wishes

Inspiring a patient and making them feel strong can contribute to their recovery in a big way. Here are some messages that can inspire your friend or loved one to get will and get back to their normal life!

  • I wish you to get well and get back to life again so that you can experience all the delights and fun that life has to offer!
  • When I checked the doctor’s prescription I found that it didn’t have a very important medicine – your best friend’s company! Wish you a speedy recovery!
  • I wish that every day your strength grows and you become happier and healthier! Fill yourself with all the positive energy and you will recover faster!
  • Don’t worry about the illness. I am taking karate classes to kick the hell out of it! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
  • Take a look outside and the sun is shining bright and tells you to get better and get going! Cheer up and get well soon!
  • This is the best time when you should know that so many people care about you. And I am one of those people! Wish you get well and back to work soon!

What to Say in a Get Well Card

  • There is time for work and time for rest. You feel sick because it was time your body got some rest. I think it was for the best! When you get back on your feet, it will be time for us to party hard! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
  • We all miss you, your kindness and your sense of humor! You need to know that everyone is eagerly waiting for your return. Get well soon!
  • I have a whole bunch of new stories to tell! Get well and get back soon so that I won’t forget them!
  • When I was sick, you cracked up a joke and said that laughter is the best medicine! It made me even more ill. Don’t worry I will not be sending many jokes to you! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
  • Good humor and health are like sunshine to greenery! Life is not just about living, it’s about living well! So shine and get well soon!
  • I am wondering why it’s easy to read the doctor’s bill and not their prescription! Keep pondering as you heal quickly!

After a Surgery

Surgeries are followed by some pain and challenges. A few words of care and love during this time can help speed up the healing!

  • You are one of the strongest and bravest people I know! Now it’s time to heal and get better soon! Wishing a speedy recovery!
  • I wish you the best in health and that you make a quick recovery from your surgery!
  • A successful surgery is 100% of the job done well! Now it’s up to you to heal quickly and get back to life! Wishing you a quick recovery!
  • The best thing about a surgery is that everyone takes full care of you! It is an even better feeling than getting a vacation! I wish you a speedy recovery!
  • Your surgery was your doctor’s headache! Healing and recovering is yours! Rest and relax and enjoy all the pampering and care you get! Wishing you all the care and love so that you make a quick recovery!

Wishes Recovery Good

  • Don’t worry if you feel crummy after the surgery. Its only for a few days. Sending you wishes for a faster recovery!
  • I wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and good wishes! I am praying for your quick recovery and better health!
  • Feel messages of healing coming your way from all your friends at the office.
  • When I think of your strength, I know that a surgery is nothing to stop you! Wish you a speedy recovery!

Words of Encouragement After Surgery

  • The medicines and pain are not as bad as the hospital food! I know how much you must be craving for home-made food! Get well soon so that you can enjoy all the good food you love!
  • Sending you our love and wishes after your surgery! We wish you to recover quickly and get back to being healthy and happier than ever!
  • It’s time for you to listen to your doctor and loved ones! Drink all the fluids, take all the medicines and take rest. You can work and enjoy all you can once you have recovered fully! Wishing you a speedy recovery!
  • I am happy for your successful surgery! Spending your days in the hospital can be boring. But the best part is getting your food in bed! Wishing you a speedy recovery so that you don’t get spoilt by the daily routine!
  • I wish you comfort and rest after your surgery! I want you to know that we are thinking of you and wish you a speedy recovery!

Looking for get well card messages that hit the mark?  Review these listings for ideas.  And, then, personalize your card with your own message.

Card Messages

Card messages aren’t my thing. Get well soon!

During this down time we hope that your recovery is a relaxing and restful one. All the best and we hope you get well soon!

GET WELL SOON!! Missing you lots and we hope that you have a quick recovery.

Get well soon. Feel better. We miss you!

Better you than me. Get well soon!

Get Well Soon Greetings

GET WELL SOON!! We’re missing you lots at . Wishing you a speedy recovery and looking forward to having you back soon.

Good health starts with a happy heart. Hope these flowers start the job!

Here’s to hoping you get well soon. We’re thinking of you during this time and we hope that your recovery is a restful one.

Get well soon greetings from one of your best friends.

Here’s to hoping you GET WELL SOON! We’re missing you at and can’t wait to have you back.

Hope your recovery is a speedy one. We miss you!

We’re hoping your surgery (GOES/WENT) well, and that your recovery is quick!

Hope you’re back on your feet pronto.

You’ll be on your feet again soon.

Hoping these flowers brighten not only your room, but your heart today.

We pray and hope this finds you well on the way to recovery.

More recovery messages

I am sorry you are not feeling well. I am praying for you to have a complete and quick recovery.

If I told you to “Get Well Soon,” it wouldn’t be soon enough. Get Well Now.

I’m really sorry to hear of your illness. We’re all thinking of you during this time and hope your recovery is a speedy one.

Loving relief for your aches and pains.

Recovery Greetings

Loving thoughts are tucked inside this bundle of flowers!

May every day find you feeling better!

May you enjoy this time off to put your feet up and recover fully. We hope that the next few weeks are filled with lots of rest and relaxation.

May you feel your usual self again in no time!! Missing you lots while you’re getting back on you feet and hope to see you at again soon.

May your hospital stay be only short! Wishing you a complete and restful recovery. GET WELL SOON!

May your recovery be a quick and zippy one. Enjoy the time off and we hope to see back on your feet again soon.

May your recovery be a short but restful one. We’re all thinking of you during this time and we hope you’re back on your feet soon.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you as we wish for a complete and restful recovery. Looking forward to catching up with you again soon.

Our thoughts are with you. Get well soon! Thinking of you.

Our warmest thoughts are with you. Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Card Sayings

Sending loads of love your way for a speedy recovery!

Our prayers, healing thoughts, and a little sunshine to brighten your day are coming your way.

Sending you some get well cheer!

Take care of yourself and feel better soon.

Thinking of you. May you feel better soon.

To brighten your day!

Come Back Soon

We miss you! Come back soon!

We’re sick without you. Get well soon.

We’re all missing you terribly and can’t wait to have you back at again. Get well soon! Lots of love.

We’re all thinking of you during this time while you’re getting better in hospital. Wishing you a speedy recovery and we hope to see you again at soon.

We’re all thinking of you while you’re in hospital with your feet up. Wishing you a speedy recovery and we hope to see you at again soon.

We’re thinking of you during this time!! Wishing you a restful recovery and we hope that your back to you’re usual self again soon.

Our prayers for a speedy recovery.

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Wishing you a super duper, fast and zippy recovery! hasn’t been the same without you.

Wishing you all the best with your recovery. May you use this restful time to recharge and energize. All the best.

You are in my thoughts. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

You are missed! Get well and hurry back.

Get Well Wishes

  • For a quick recovery and return to good health.
  • Sending you a boatload of well wishes for a speedy recovery.
  • Hugs and Kisses and get well wishes.
  • Hope your tail is wagging again soon.
  • Take care of yourself and be well soon.
  • Praying you are feeling great in no time.
  • Heard that you’ve been under the weather. Hope things clear up soon.

What to say when someone is sick

  • Sending loving thoughts your way and hoping for a quick recovery.
  • Caring thoughts are with you.
  • Hope you feel better soon!
  • We’re missing you tons.
  • Surgery stinks! Get well in a hurry – we miss you.

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Being in the hospital can be scary, stressful, exhausting and generally awful. “What can I do?” is the single most common question I’m asked when I’m in the hospital with my daughter, Sarah. I’m deeply grateful for the helping hand, but I usually don’t have an answer in the moment because I can’t focus on the question. But now that I have time to think about it, here are 10 things you can do for your friend who is in the hospital with their child:

1. A good cup of coffee will be greatly appreciated.

Hospital coffee is often terrible and terribly expensive. A nice cup of coffee is an easy thrill.

2. Visit them at the hospital, even it’s a short stay.

Not everyone can, and certainly no one can every time, but consider coming for a quick visit. A hug goes a really long way. Limit your visit, though. Your friend is tired. They probably stayed up too late and woke up too early. It might feel like a waste to drive all that way for a short visit. It isn’t.

3. Bring food from outside the hospital.

Hospitals vary, of course. But even in a hospital with good food, food from the outside will be appreciated. Hospitals and even units within hospitals all have different policies about food so check their policy online first.

4. Offering a gas or grocery card could help your friend with money issues.

This is something no one is going to ask for when you ask what they need, but I promise it is almost certainly needed. Even with great insurance, hospitalizations rack up costs. Expenses like food, parking and gas won’t break the bank in a day. But days and weeks add up very quickly.

I can give a pretty accurate budget overview for each of the hospitals we frequent, and some are much harder on the bottom line than others. Even if we stay afloat during the hospitalization, it’s really hard to catch up when you begin to fall behind on your other bills. I don’t hear people talk about this a lot, but nearly every family I know with a kid who spends time in the hospital is behind on bills. This is why. We are on the same tight budgets that most people are on; the surprise expenses of an unplanned or extended hospitalization can throw the whole budget off for months. If money makes you uncomfortable, or if you think it will make your friend uncomfortable, you might consider gas cards or grocery cards.

5. Take the siblings out.

Spoil them. You will have my undying affection if you make my children happy during these times. Kids struggle a lot when their siblings are in the hospital. They get less of their parents when they need more. They’re worried. They’re scared. They might be feeling like they’re less important than their siblings. They even be might be mad. Give them a break from all the focus on their sick sibling.

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6. Don’t forget to smile.

No one does. People think they should feel sad. The thing is, moods are contagious. Bring a little joy. Sing with them. Laugh with them. Don’t force a mood you don’t feel, but don’t leave all the smiles at the hospital door, either. We need them inside the room, too.

7. Tell your friend you’re going to pray and then do it.

When my friends ask for prayers, I pray right away. I will forget if I put it off. It doesn’t take long, and I can pray later, too. I believe God listens and knows what they need, so this doesn’t have to be complicated. Let your friend know you’re praying. Just knowing you’re thinking of them is helpful in and of itself. If you don’t pray, send good thoughts. That’s helpful, too.

8. Create a care package.

Care packages are a tried and true method of making someone feel loved. In a hospital care package, send a mix of things they might need and things that will make them happy. This doesn’t have to be a huge expensive thing. Here is a list of things you might consider including:

• Clothing: For your friend or their kid. They’re not home. Laundry might be an issue. The kid is probably in a hospital gown, but they will have to go home at some point, and the clothing they came in is probably dirty.

• A real toothbrush and/or razor: We always forget to bring them.

• Books or magazines: For either the patient or the parent.

• A toy for the patient.

• Tea

Mug

• Lotion, shampoo samples or lip gloss.

• Silk flowers or balloons: Real flowers are allowed on some units but not most.

• Music

• Chocolate

• Vitamins

• A coloring book: I suppose you could get one for their child, too.

• Essential oils: Think calming blends. I bring a roller bottle with frankincense and lavender in almond oil.

You know your friend. Are they silly? Bring a slinky. Are they serious? Bring a journal. When you’re planning a package, you might think of it as a sensory escape from the hospital. What would you want to look at or smell or hear or do?

9. Bring dinner for the other family members at home.

This simple gesture shouldn’t be underestimated.

10. Offer to sit with the patient.

One of the hardest things about being a parent is you feel guilty leaving, even for a minute. You can’t completely solve this problem for your friend, but you can offer to stay in the hospital room with their child while your friend takes a shower, goes on a walk or steps out for a meal.

Bonus #11: Keep asking what you can do. In the moment, your friend might not be able to answer. They’re tired. Their mind is occupied. When I am asked, if I answer at all, I am likely to say something inane like, “Bring me a fresh towel and a banana.” But you know, I heard what you meant to say. I heard, “I love you and I am here.” That is huge. That’s the biggest thing on the list.

Follow this journey on Joyful Catholic Mom.

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