Several people have contacted me and said thank you for exposing Domestic violence in the church because so many are afraid to expose it or talk about it.So many men and woman can tell you about what are the fruits of the spirit but so many don’t even think that one of the fruits of the spirit is self control.See so many people look at things in their life as if they are life or death to where they must be in control and if they cant control they lose their identity or who they are.The word of God makes it very clear be anxious for nothing but prayer always but I have met so many Christians that have their mind set on something so strong they have no love,compassion,mercy or kindness either to their own family member or friends because when things don’t go as they have planned they throw adult tantrums.So their emotions and thoughts now have taken over them to where they no longer reason or walk in any type of power,authority in Christ because they lack love. They’re very quick to blame some one else for every thing in their life that doesn’t go right.They can not walk in any type of accountability and they will claim their sorry even though they will commit the same sin over and over again claiming it isn’t their fault some one else did this or that to cause their anger.
So if you want help please pray this prayer : Father in heaven forgive me for my arrogance,pride,control,manipulation,and my self center ness.Now please create in me a clean,pure,holy and humble heart.Please forgive me for not trusting in you and for give me for thinking I must be in control at all times over every one in my life.Please help me and teach me how to walk in peace,joy and humility.Thank you for blessing me with a new heart and thank you for making me a new creation in you,so now in the blood of Christ I pray these prayers amen.
Prayer Against Anger
Without Your help, I will never win this battle with rage. But Your Word says that, “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” I am counting on Your strength to help me ward off anger. I renounce it in Jesus’ Name. I repent of holding on to anger and giving the devil a foothold in my life and relationships. I am determined to follow Your Word, to study it, memorize it, meditate on it, and declare it until You have renewed my mind, giving me the mind of Christ – a mind at peace with God, at peace with myself, and at peace with others. This is possible only through the shedding of Your blood, the atoning of my sin on the Cross, for which I am eternally grateful. I submit myself wholeheartedly to Your grace and forgiveness. Teach me to be your disciple. Give me godly leaders to follow and a Church Body to walk alongside. I receive from you the ability to put away anger!
In Jesus’ Name, Amen!
Read over the following list of the most common ways a parent provokes his child to anger. Mark any specific areas of failure in your own life or in your son or daughter. Often the attitudes of children reflect those of their parents; therefore, search your own life in relation to the struggles of your child.
In regards to each failure, repent of your sin, and receive the Lord’s forgiveness. (See I John 1:9.) Ask the Lord for grace and power to forsake your sin and to walk in newness of life. Pray that the Lord would limit the damaging effects of your failures on your children, and where you see failures in their lives, pray for conviction and grace for them to change. Open your Bible to each verse and pray out loud the associated Scripture.
by Katie B (Germany)
Please bless this soldier who has given unselfishly with honor and risked his life over and over for the greater good. Help him to let go of all anger, resentment, control, and fear. Comfort him when he is confused and frustrated. Bring peace to his core when he is out of control.
Protect him from self Criticism, self-destruction, and negative or dark thoughts and energy. Help him through this time with the terminal illness of his abusive father. Give him clarity and confidence with making decisions for his future career with or without the Army. Remove all blocks that prevent him from knowing and feeling love from you and others.
Father, Help him to know you and trust in you. Create a miracle in him so he may experience a deep inner-peace and cast out of his mind, heart, and soul all anger and fear. Help him to enjoy the freedom he has fought for. Bless his wife that she may stay calm and react with prayer, strength, peace, and love during these very intense and difficult times.
Renew and strengthen the love between the soldier and his wife so they may pass along your peace, love, and gentleness to the rest of the world. Help this soldier and his wife be the best version of themselves. Thank you gratefully for all the blessings you have given us. Amen.