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Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

Question: Assalam alaikum,

I have been in a very long relationship with a man. We have been engaged several years. A lot of rumor came to me during this time regarding his bad behaviour with other women and he has became very distant to me. Now I am lost and I don’t know what to do especially since I am very close to his family.

1) Should I go personally meet him and ask for clarifications?

2) If he really doesn’t want me anymore how can I stop thinking about him all the time? My heart is broken.

3)Should I tell his parents that we are no longer together? I love his family.

4) Give me advice on this whole situation. I feel very weak.

Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

I pray that you are well. May Allah ease your sorrow. Tests of heartbreak are amongst the hardest trials which we encounter in this dunya. These trials are also one of the swiftest means of attaining closeness to Allah.

In response to your questions:

1) I would advise against meeting him. It is clear from his lack of contact with you that he is no longer interested in marrying you. Although this must be very hurtful for you, trying to see him in person will only worsen your heartache. He may not even want to see you. Save your heart further pain by accepting the Decree of Allah.

2) Every day, read Ayatul Kursi with the intention of asking Allah to lift this tribulation from your heart. Pray Salatul Hajat during the last third of the night and plead with Allah to ease your heartache, and to replace what you lost with something better. You have been involved with this man for a very long time, but have trust that Allah, the Turner of Hearts, can heal your heartbreak. You are a Muslimah, and Allah has honoured you with belief. You are deserving of a faithful and loving Muslim husband who will not have dalliances behind your back or involve you in a pre-marital relationship which drags on for years.

“And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are signs for those who reflect.”

3) To help you make a decision about whether or not you should stay in contact with his family, perform Salatul Istikhara . In the interest of letting go of your attachment to him, I would strongly suggest that you say goodbye to his family and stop visiting them. Do not allow your heart any seed of hope. Close that door so that you can move forward.

4) All suffering in this world is temporary, even heartbreak which seems unending. Channel your grief into dua and ask Allah to grant contentment with His Decree. Increase in your acts of worship and busy your heart with remembrance of Allah, the One who will never let you down.

I know of many Muslim women who suffered tremendous heartbreak, made their repentance, accepted Allah’s Decree, then shortly after, Allah blessed them with a righteous spouse. I pray that Allah has written a righteous and loving husband for you in this dunya.

“…But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah knows, while you know not.”

Please refer to these links:

Is there a concept of “soulmates” in Islam?Hearts broken for Allah’s sakeSelected Prophetic Prayers for Spiritual, Physical and Emotional Wellbeing by Chaplain Ibrahim LongCoping with tragedy

wassalam,

Raidah

Checked & Approved by Faraz Rabbani

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Hello people!

MY HEART IS BROKEN

I had to vent a little. My heart is so broken right now and there is nothing I can do about it. So about a month or so ago in May, my daughter, 10, had just been admitted to the hospital for the um-teenth time related to her asthma. This time, I had had enough. She has had asthma since she was four years old and it has got progressively worse over the years. One of the doctors and a nurse suggested moving, they suggested Arizona. No Arizona! We live in Louisville, KY (“the Ohio Valley”) and I am originally from Atlanta, GA, so Arizona was out because it was too far. So I checked into Florida. Florida has a semi dry climate, it has a lot of nurse jobs for me, and my nursing school is there as well as my current employer has 3 facilities in Florida. So I discussed this with my boyfriend/fiancée/best friend and he was cool with it. He said he was “ready to get out of Kentucky”. Ok, so this was great to get his approval. Then, she was hospitalized again two weeks later. Oh boy! Again! I was so ready to leave Kentucky right then and there but I had to plan it out. I’m the type of person that when I want to do something, I want to do it right then. So as time goes on, I’m looking for jobs, checking with my job’s facility in Florida, looking at places to live and even typed up a budget for the move. Ok, here’s where the drama starts. All of a sudden, this weekend July 7th, (suppose to be moving in Sept) and my fiancée says not only does he not want to go to Florida but he does not want to leave KY period! My heart was crushed:(

A little background. About six months after I met my boyfriend, he moved with me to Atlanta in Sept. 2008. Something happened when we got there, so he did not like being there anymore. About three weeks later I had found an amazing apartment, paid first months rent, got a job and nursing license finally came. Well unbeknownst to me, he had been making arrangements to leave behind my back the whole time. So after I found that out, the day I was to move into my apartment, after a month living with my trifling dad, I decided to move back to KY with him. Moving forward, we began to make wedding plans in June 2010. Everything seemed fine until I realized that I did not want to be with someone who was not working, had no education and NO motivation to better himself, I decided I did not want to marry him anymore. My great grandmother passed away Aug. 2009. Her and grandmamma were living together and had been for a long time. It devastated my grandmother, so I choose to move back again to Atlanta to try to help her out. This was in Jan. 2011, me and my bf had decided to move back, he agreed “again”. Three days before the move, mind you I had already told my landlord we would be out by Feb. 1st; he says he’s not going. Ugh, devastated me again. So I still had to move out of my house and to my mother’s because I had nowhere else to go, he went to his mothers. I have had so much resentment towards him from keeping me from moving from KY, which I hate. Although he’s never really “kept” me from moving, I didn’t want to lose him. So here we are present day, July 12, 2012 and he is dead set that he is not leaving. I’m very confused because he doesn’t seem upset, sad or mad that I’m leaving. I have boxes already packed and everything. Is it because he may have someone else, really being heartless or is he just bluffing to see if I will stay? I don’t know but I have already had to get my teenage son mind set on leaving his friends and everything to follow mommy to Florida. So I can’t turn back now. Plus it’s not about me; my daughter’s health is at risk and a top factor. I asked my bf why now he does not want to go, he says “I never wanted to go”, “wow,” I thought.

I just don’t see how he can just give up on our relationship instead of just going with the flow. He says that his daughter and family are here. I understand and even said we can bring his daughter with us (even though that’s not really what I wanted to do) I would have did it for him. And as far as his family goes, he doesn’t see them or talk to them even. He says that I’m the reason why he doesn’t see his family a lot because we live 20 minutes away from them. But it’s been that way for the 4.5 years we’ve been together. I don’t get it. A lot of people take risks and some even work out. I am the breadwinner; college educated and has always taken care of him, his daughter and whatever he’s ever needed. I don’t get it. If it was me and my significant other was taking care of me and my children, holding it down, I would go WHEREVER with him. My mother, niece, nephew, sister and great niece on the way, oh and my youngest son, are here in KY that I will be leaving but it is my decision. There are cell phones, FB, twitter, tango and Skype to k.i.t. with everyone. Not to mention it’s not really that far. I told him he can get on Greyhound once or twice a month or whenever he felt like it to visit. Plus, he hasn’t found work in KY so far, so I thought he would get work easier in Florida. I want to start an in-home childcare and I told him that he could start doing lawn care and make his own money, something.

I just don’t know why he’s not motivated. All his friends have jobs and a car but him. But he wants to stay here. I’m just so upset, hurt, mad, sad and confused I don’t know what to do. One thing I know is that I cannot stay in Louisville. I don’t even want too.

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