Prayer for an alcoholic husband

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It took bad knees, an autistic grandson and a very grumpy old man for me to get out of denial and realize my husband was an alcoholic of over 42 years. My husband led a second life of daily drinking at a bar. His work hours were erratic and of course he lied about the time spent at a bar. He never exhibited obvious signs of alcoholism such as staggering or slurring of speech and he never missed a day at work. My only sign was his meanness and rage which got worse and worse. It took a church tour of Israel and a dynamic spiritual experience for me to see that something was very wrong at home.

Our group was at the shore of the sea of Galilee and at the rock where Jesus cooked fish for Peter. All the members of my tour went to the shore of the water to touch it but I held back because the pebbles on the ground leading to the shore were glistening with dew and I was afraid I would fall and injure my bad knees. I observed the famous rock and saw that people left scrolls of prayer requests in the porous surface of this rock. My grandson had just been diagnosed with autism and did not speak. I put in a prayer request that he would speak. I placed my hands on the rock and physically felt a vibration from God. I was in awe. I knew my prayer was answered,  but I also knew I was taking something special home with me.

When I returned to the US, I called my daughter and she reported my grandson spoke for the first time.

My husband was worse then ever. I decided to follow him as he left his work place and he didn’t go home! I lost him in traffic that day. I tried another time and caught him at a bar. I finally woke up and realized he was an alcoholic. I read some books on alcoholism and he had most of the behavior symptoms. He made  hundreds of silly excuses to get out of the house and drink. I knew God was with me and I prayed for guidance. I finally had the courage to confront him. I gave him the choice of our marriage or the bottle. He didn’t answer me. The next day he came to me shaking and said he would go to AA. A long bumpy road followed for the months to come but he eventually became sober and is still attending AA. Things are much better at home without the drinking but he has had a few slips. We both had to change behaviors and we are both still struggling with the effects left by 42 years of drinking, but it is now tolerable. My heart goes out to all of you who suffer from this awful disease.

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According to the National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependency, over 17.7 million people in the

USA or 1 in 12 adults suffer from addiction to alcoholism or participate regularly in binge drinking.

That’s a staggering sum and it means that you must know someone who suffers from Alcoholism.  These figures are in the USA and we know that there are many suffering alcoholics all over the world.

There are 12 steps program established to assist people in how to stop drinking.  While these programs have some success the programs show only a 3% success rate.  Then there are those known as the dry drunks who have not had a drink in years but still suffer from the effects of alcoholism even after they’ve discovered how to successfully quit drinking.

Why is this?  Well, as Christians we know that we cannot do ANYTHING successfully without the help of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit who is our helper.  He is the only one that can truly heal us from disease.  His name is Jehovah Rophe the God who heals.  And, given these statistics we know that there must be Christian alcoholics.

The tenets, the 12 steps of alcoholics anonymous and 12 traditions, are good and do have a focus in ‘spirituality’ but usually people just focus on who they want to be their spiritual leader so it could be anyone and not necessarily Jesus.

Here are the steps taken from Wikipedia and edited to make Jesus Christ the main focus since He is our Savior as Christians and the one we look to for help and wholeness

  1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. Came to believe that a Jesus Christ can restore us to sanity.
  3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care Jesus Christ.
  4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
  5. Admitted to Jesus Christ, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
  6. Were entirely ready to have Jesus Christ remove all these defects of character.
  7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
  8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
  9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
  10. Continued to take personal inventory, and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
  11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our relationship with Jesus Christ, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the Holy Spirit’s power to carry that out.
  12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

When we understand who Jesus Christ is and why He came to earth we can have a better understanding of how His power is all we need to be successful in overcoming alcoholism and any other type of addiction.  To learn more about having a relationship with Jesus Christ, click here

In AA, they use a big book which is used to help their member through the recovery process.  In Christianity, we too have our Big Book which is the Bible.  Alcoholics need this to help with their recovery.  Reading the bible is important in the meditation process

When we believe and we have a full understanding that God’s word is truly medicine for our soul and has the power to heal us then we can take this medicine in daily and receive the healing, freedom and recovery that we need on a daily basis.

If you presently struggling with alcoholism or know someone who is, we would like to share some scriptures with you.  These are not to beat you over the head to tell you how bad alcoholism is (we’re sure you already know that) but to help you in your recovery and restoration process.  God is a God of restoration.  He wants you to be restored. To be healed 100% so that you can live the life that He purposed in you BEFORE you were even born.

Here are some scriptures that will help those who are suffering from Alcoholism:

(Ephesians 5:18) “And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit” Ask God to fill you with His Holy Spirit

(Romans 12:1-2) “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” Surrender your  life to God. Read the Bible daily and His word will transform your mind which will in turn transform your life! He will make known to you the purpose and will that He has for your life.  Yes, God has a purpose for you!

(Galatians 5:13) “For you, brethren, have been called to liberty; only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another” Serve Others. Stop focusing on yourself and look for others that you can help.

(Ephesians 5:18-20) “And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ” When you feel weak, Praise God!  Sing and worship Him.  In the midst of your struggle He will show up and deliver you.

(1 John 1:9) “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. When you commit a sin, ask God to forgive you.  Accept that He has forgiven you, if you truly meant it when you asked, and move on.  Self loathing, shame and guilt is not from God so REJECT those thoughts because that would be the devil talking to you!

(James 4:7) “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” When you feel weak, fall on your knees and cry out to God and He will save you from these temptations.  Submit to God first and then this evil will be removed from you.

(2 Samuel 22:2, 20) “And he said: “The Lordis my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; He also brought me out into a broad place; He delivered me because He delighted in me.” Make the Lord Jesus your main focus.  He is your deliverer and He want to bring you into a greater life which He has planned for you, because He LOVES you.

(Matthew 17:20-21) “I say to you, if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you.However, this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.” God wants you to know that will just a little faith if you rebuke that demon of addiction you can remove it.  You may need to fast along with praying to be free of this.  Ask other Christians to pray and fast for you as well.

(2 Corinthians 5:17) “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new”When you become a Christian, God made you a new creation so everything that was broken in your life before is now made whole.  All you need to do is access the wholeness that is already yours through prayer and meditation on the scriptures.

(1 John 5:4) “For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.”  Jesus overcame the world so that you, because of your belief in Him, will also overcome this addiction.

For those of you who came from parents who were also alcoholics or perhaps while you were in the whom your mother was abusing alcohol, you may have an issue with a generational curse that needs to be broken.  Here is some information on

breaking generational curses

.

In AA they have different prayers through each step, 3rd step prayer, fourth step prayer, 7th step prayer, etc.  We feel that this one will encompass all the steps. Here is a prayer against alcoholism

Father God, I humbly come before you crying out for help from this addiction to alcohol.  I’ve seen so many lives ruined by this disease. I too have hurt others in going through this process.  First I ask you to forgive me.  I also ask you for the grace and strength to ask others to forgive me. Reveal to me all the people that I need to ask for forgiveness and I pray that you will work on their hearts so that they will accept my apology. Please don’t let me be a part of the statistics that have tried and failed.  Weed out the root of unbelief from my heart and give me that grain of mustard seed faith that will believe that if I say to this mountain of addiction be cast into the sea, it will be removed from me.  I speak to this demon of addiction and I say be removed from me.  I have been cleansed by the blood of Jesus and born again as a new creation in Christ Jesus. I bow my knees, my spirit, my will to Jehovah Rophe my healer and my God of miracles.  Just as Jesus overcame the world and the things of this world, I too will overcome this illness.  Jesus , intercede on my behalf in heaven in the areas of my life where I don’t know how to pray.  You have given me authority to trample upon serpents and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy and nothing shall by any means harm me, including alcohol, so I trample upon it.  I will overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the word of my testimony which I will have as a result of this great miraculous deliverance!  I thank you for being my deliverer.  I submit and surrender my life to you.  I ask you God to renew my mind with Your Word.  Restore me to the joy of your salvation.  Holy Spirit direct my steps.  Show me the people and places in my life where I need to stay away from while you are healing me and restoring me.  Lead me to the right church and Christian friends who can support me in this journey, in Jesus Name, Amen

We know that you will need to have some support as you are going through this process so you will need to

find a church

where you can be accountable to other believers in Christ and a pastor.  Also, getting in an

AA group

or calling one of the

AA numbers

for guidance will help you through the process.  Just remember that your focus is Jesus Christ, prayer and His word.  This is what will keep you on the road to recovery.

We hope these tips for alcoholism helped you in some way and if you want to include your name in the comment section below we would be happy to pray for you.

A word to Christians who don’t suffer from alcoholism but have friends who are in recovery.  Do not drink alcohol around them.  It’s just disrespectful and it does not honor God.  And, it doesn’t matter if they have been clean and sober for 20 years! Show your support and refrain from drinking alcohol in their presence. (1 Corinthians 8:9) “But take heed lest by any means this liberty of yours become a stumbling block to them that are weak.”

Here are some other articles which you may find useful for this topic:

Bible Verses About Hope

A Prayer for your Future

Praying against Depression and how to cope

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